I am shy but outgoing, timid but strong, a loner but loves to be around people. It all depends on who am with and how familiar or comfortable I am with them.
I think confidence is the greatest asset a person can have, both in themselves and in the environment around them. I like a man who has achieved self actualization, that is not dwelling on what happened way back when but what could happen today or tomorrow.Those who often dwell in the past are not around me very long, I spot them from miles and run fast. I enjoy dancing, great conversation, intelligence, not necessarily from the academic side, but common sense and the ability to think through things. I like a man that can carry a conversation and is not afraid to learn or teach for that matter. I want it all and will not settle for less, but at the same time, want that person that can stop and smell the roses and appreciate the time he has on this earth, knowing it is not forever.