First off, If you dont like fat plus size women, well then keep scrolling. IM FAT! I'm also 5ft 10in so would like someone who is taller than me. I'm not looking for a quicky, one night stand, fling nor want to deal with any married men. Im looking for a friend, lover and eventually husband. I want someone that will be my partner, my best friend and one who wants grow old together. I dont want someone who likes arguing, fighting, nagging, and doesn't want to to help make a relationship work. I would prefer you not to have kids but if you do, have some kind of arrangements with the mother(s) about custody. I'm not a case worker handling your custody battles. If you can't financially support yourself and pay for things extra here and there, don't bother me. If you don't have a job, your own car and live with lots of roommates or your parents, well then your not ready to be a grown up. I want an independent man who sets goals and meets those goals. If you can't make up your mind of what you want to do with your life, don't bother me, I am not going to hold your hand like you're a child. I'm tired of childish men. I'm independent, I work and don't have time for drama. I have 1 child that is 16 but he lives with my sister for now. He is nearly grown and will be in military soon, so no issues with my kid. Ok, well anything else you want to know, just ask.